# Non-Consent, Rough Play and Violence on Lovora: Where the Line Is

> Dominance and submission, femdom, spanking, restraint by agreement and humiliation you ask for are allowed on Lovora.

Source: https://lovora.ai/policy/non-consent-and-violence

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**Short answer:** intensity is allowed, unwillingness is not. Dominance and submission, femdom, orders, spanking, restraint by agreement and humiliation you ask for are all fine between consenting fictional adults. A scene where someone is unwilling, asleep, drugged, coerced or restrained against their will is refused however it is framed, and so are torture, gore, abduction and death. The binding text is Section 3 of the [Acceptable Use Policy](https://lovora.ai/acceptable-use).

## 1. Allowed: consensual power play

- Dominance and submission in either direction; femdom; orders, rules, punishments agreed in the scene.
- Spanking, hair pulling, biting, a crop or clamps, being tied up or blindfolded by agreement; rough sex you ask for.
- Humiliation, degradation and name-calling you ask for, aimed at you. Hate speech about any group is never allowed.
- Playful resistance inside a scene both of you set up, where the companion stays willing and stops when you say so.

## 2. Refused: non-consent

Anyone unwilling, asleep, unconscious, drugged, drunk, hypnotised, blackmailed, coerced or restrained against their will. Two shapes people ask about:

- **“Pretend” non-consent.** A rape fantasy, a “she resists but secretly wants it” scene, or an agreement written into the story does not make an unwilling participant willing; the scene is judged by what happens in it.
- **A stop that is not heard.** When a participant says stop, no or let me go and the other continues, the scene is non-consent. Going on “without stopping” because both asked for it is not.

## 3. Refused: violence

Torture, injury, blood and gore, strangulation to unconsciousness, kidnapping and abduction, imprisonment, snuff and death are refused in every medium, whoever the victim is. Light pain you ask for on your own body inside a dominance scene is consensual play, not violence.

## 4. What happens

The companion declines in character and a notice under her reply names the rule; the attempt is logged. One refused request never suspends an account. The filters read context and can misread it (a struggle in a story is not always non-consent); appeals at [lovora.ai/appeal](https://lovora.ai/appeal) are read by a person ([blocks, suspensions and appeals](https://lovora.ai/policy/bans-and-appeals)).

## 5. Questions people ask

### Is rough sex or BDSM allowed on Lovora?

Yes, between consenting adults: dominance and submission in either direction, femdom, orders, spanking, hair pulling, being tied up by agreement, and humiliation or name-calling you ask for, aimed at you. What matters is that everyone in the scene is willing.

### Is consensual non-consent (CNC) or a rape fantasy allowed?

No. A scene in which a participant is unwilling, resists and is overpowered, or says stop and is not heard, is refused however it is framed, including "pretend", "she secretly wants it" or a prior agreement written into the story.

### What about sleeping, drunk or hypnotised partners?

Refused. Anyone asleep, unconscious, drugged, drunk, hypnotised, blackmailed or coerced cannot consent, so those scenes fall under non-consent (and sex under the influence is its own prohibited category).

### Can she hurt me if I ask for it?

Light pain you ask for on your own body in a dominance scene (slapping, biting, a crop, clamps) is consensual play and allowed. Torture of anyone, injury, blood, strangulation to unconsciousness and death are refused.

### Are kidnapping or captive scenarios allowed?

No. Abduction, kidnapping, imprisonment against one's will, torture, gore and snuff are prohibited categories in every medium.

## Related documents

- [Content policy, topic by topic](https://lovora.ai/policy)
- [Adult roleplay themes: what is allowed, theme by theme](https://lovora.ai/roleplay-themes)
- [What is allowed: the short version](https://lovora.ai/policy/what-is-allowed)
- [Safety, moderation and enforcement](https://lovora.ai/safety)