# Which AI Girlfriend Remembers You? How Companion Memory Works in 2026

> What "memory" means in an AI girlfriend (a context window, a stored summary, or both), how to test it in two sessions…

Source: https://lovora.ai/blog/ai-girlfriend-memory

[Lovora Blog](https://lovora.ai/blog) · Published 2026-11-01



What "memory" means in an AI girlfriend (a context window, a stored summary, or both), how to test it in two sessions, the exact figures Lovora publishes (40 messages word for word, 15 lasting facts, per companion), and the limits every platform has.

Short answer: every AI girlfriend "remembers" within one conversation, because the recent messages are sent to the model with each reply; what separates platforms is whether anything survives the session, how much, and whether the platform says so. Lovora publishes its numbers: a companion keeps your last 40 messages word for word (24 in a voice call) plus up to 15 lasting facts about you, distilled every five of your messages, stored per companion and used in chat, in calls and in the messages she sends first; the last 200 messages are stored, and everything is erased with the account ([lovora.ai/memory](https://lovora.ai/memory)). This page explains the mechanics, so you can judge any platform's claims, and shows how to test memory in two sessions.

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## Two kinds of memory, and why the difference matters

The first kind is the context window: the recent conversation that is sent to the language model with every reply. It is exact (the model sees the actual words) and it is short, because models have a limit and every message costs. Everything inside it is "remembered"; the moment a message falls out of it, it is gone unless something else kept it.

The second kind is stored memory: facts about you (your name, what you do, what you like, the scene you set up) extracted from the conversation and saved, then fed back to the model in later sessions. It is small, it is a summary rather than the words, and it is where platforms differ most. Some keep nothing; some keep a few lines; some let you read and edit what is kept. A platform that says "she remembers everything" is describing the first kind and hoping you will not test the second.

## What Lovora keeps, in numbers

- The last 40 messages word for word in chat, 24 in a voice call, where the reply has to be fast.
- Up to 15 lasting facts about you, distilled every five of your messages: name, work, preferences, the scene you built, what she should not bring up.
- Per companion: what you told one companion stays with her; another starts from zero.
- Used everywhere she speaks: chat, voice calls, and the messages she sends first when you have been away.
- The last 200 messages are stored for the conversation history; everything is erased when you delete the account, immediately and by yourself.

The limits are published on purpose. A fact told once in a long session can fail to be distilled; a detail that matters to you is worth stating plainly rather than mentioning in passing. Memory is not a transcript of your life; it is what a careful partner would note down.

## The two-session test

- Session one: tell her three things that are easy to check later: your name, a detail about your day, and a preference (a nickname she should use, a thing she should never do). Build a short scene with a place and an outfit.
- Leave for a while, or close the app.
- Session two: open the conversation and ask an open question ("where were we?"). Then use the nickname and see if she recognises it. Then do the thing she was told never to do and see if she notices.
- Score it: scene remembered, name and nickname right, the preference honoured. Two of three is a platform with stored memory; three of three is a good one; zero means only the context window.

## Memory and privacy

Stored memory is personal data, which is why the honest questions are who can read it and how it is deleted. On Lovora the memory lives on your account only, is never shown to another user, and is processed by the AI servers like any other message; a person reads a conversation only where necessary for safety, an appeal, the Terms or the law. Deleting the account erases conversations, memory and media at once ([lovora.ai/policy/privacy-of-chats](https://lovora.ai/policy/privacy-of-chats)).

## Memory in voice calls and in the messages she sends first

A call is where memory shows most: she greets you when the call connects, and the scene continues in voice rather than restarting. When you have been away for a day or more, the message she sends first is written from the same memory, so it refers to the last thing you were doing rather than to nothing. Both are on every plan; calls cost 25 credits a minute, messages are unlimited.

| Lovora plan | Price | What it includes |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Free, no account | $0 | 5 messages, no email, no card; the companion's first photo arrives blurred |
| Free account | $0 | 20 more messages, 2 voice notes, blurred photo previews (up to 8), one companion you design |
| 24 hours | $3.99 | Unlimited messages, 150 credits (a photo is 12, a short video 150) |
| 1 month | $8.99 a month, launch price for anyone who joins by Dec 31, 2026 (list $18.99) | Unlimited messages, 500 credits a month |
| 3 months | $22.99 (list $36.60) | Unlimited messages, 500 credits a month |
| 12 months | $53.88, about $4.49 a month (list $71.88) | Unlimited messages, 500 credits a month |

On Lovora, credits pay for media only: a photo costs 12 credits, a short video of about five seconds 150, a voice call 25 credits a minute metered on the seconds she speaks, and hearing a message read aloud 1. Messages are unlimited on every plan, with a fair-use ceiling of 500 a day against scripts. Plans paid by card, Apple Pay or Google Pay renew at the same price until you cancel, in two taps; Telegram Stars or crypto payments are one-time and simply end.

Ask what is kept, in numbers, and how to delete it. A platform that answers both has memory; a platform that answers with an adjective has a context window.

## Try it free

Tell any companion on Lovora three things about you and come back tomorrow: 5 messages with no account, 20 more with a free one, in nine languages. Adults only (18+); every companion is AI-generated and no real people are depicted.

## FAQ

### Which AI girlfriend has the best memory?

The one that publishes what it keeps and lets you test it. Lovora keeps the last 40 messages word for word and up to 15 lasting facts about you, per companion, used in chat, calls and the messages she sends first; test any platform with the two-session test on this page.

### Does my AI girlfriend remember past conversations?

On Lovora, yes: the recent conversation word for word and a distilled list of lasting facts survive the session, per companion. On many platforms only the current conversation is remembered; the way to know is to come back the next day and ask where you were.

### How long does the memory last?

On Lovora, as long as the account exists: the facts are kept until you delete the account, which erases conversations, memory and media immediately. The last 200 messages are stored for the history.

### Does memory work in voice calls?

Yes. A call uses the last 24 messages and the same lasting facts, she greets you when the call connects, and the scene continues in voice.

### Can other users or staff see what she remembers?

Other users never. Staff only where necessary for safety, an appeal, the Terms or the law; memory is never sold or used for advertising.

### Is memory free?

Yes, on every account including the free one. Messages are unlimited on paid plans from $3.99 for 24 hours; voice, photos and video cost credits.

## The facts, documented

- [How her memory works: what she keeps about you](https://lovora.ai/memory)
- [Who can read your chats, and what is kept](https://lovora.ai/policy/privacy-of-chats)
- [Your account and data](https://lovora.ai/account-and-data)

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